A badkhn-lid (Jewish wedding song of long ago)
UPDATE: I first heard this song long, long ago when I was recording for Sheva Zucker's set of Yiddish language cassettes. I did half the songs and Sender did the other half and he sang this song, but I really liked it, so in 2014 I recorded it in my living room and put it on this blog.
This blog was recently hacked and I spent spent a couple days going through all the posts to extinguish links to the Malaysian gaming site that had gotten hold of it. So when I got to this song, it turned out the soundcloud link was dead. Why? I don't know. So then I thought, no problem, I'll just find it on my computer and put it up on youtube. Except I couldn't find my recording. It wasn't on my computer, or on my hard drives or flash drives. It was just gone.
So, I recorded it again a couple weeks ago. I asked Sheva where she had gotten the song, and she said it was at Josh and Reyzl's wedding, and I wrote to Josh to ask him where HE found it, but he didn't answer, so I can't tell you.
Back in the old days, the crying at weddings was not just from joy. Marriage wasn't easy, especially for the new wife. The wedding entertainer or Master of Ceremonies, the badkhn, was tasked with reminding the assembled multitude that with life as well as with dinner, it's often not very good and the portions are always too small.

» » Read the rest of the article » » » »
Labels: battle between the sexes, making a living (poverty), nostalgia, weddings







This is Kasriel Broydo's send-up of Fanny Gordon's tango 





